Would You Trust a Partner Who Cheated in Their Past Relationship?

 

If a partner has cheated in the past, would you trust them in your current relationship?

Some people want full disclosure of their partner's past. Others just need an outline. But something about your past made you who you are today. Tell your partner that it is important to have a strong bond [5].

You can avoid this by not revealing intimate details of your past relationships. You may wonder, "Should couples even talk about past relationships?" If so, how do you talk about past relationships without destroying them? [5].

What red flags could indicate a partner is likely to cheat?

Again, there is no definitive way to tell if your partner is cheating without asking directly or catching them in the act. What may be a warning sign in one relationship may be nothing to be concerned about in another relationship. In fact, most signs of infidelity are quite subtle. Only when the lies and stories stop adding up does cheating usually come to light[3].

Here are a few things that often point a finger at a cheater. While it is true that some of the following red flags may be sure-fire indicators, I've used the words "may suggest a cheater" because it may be wise to give your partner the benefit of the doubt when suspicions arise[4].

Why is it important to be open and honest with your partner about your past relationships?

Some people want full disclosure of their partner’s past. Others are OK with just getting an outline. But certain things from your past made you who you are today. Telling your partner about those is important to build a strong connection[5].

If you don’t share intimate details about your past relationship, it’s possible to avoid this from happening. You might be asking yourself, ‘should couples talk about past relationships at all?’ if yes, how do you talk about past relationships without damaging the relationship? [5].

References

1. Can You Trust A Partner Who Admits To Cheating On Their Ex?.https://www.elitedaily.com/p/if-your-partner-admits-to-cheating-on-their-ex-can-you-still-trust-them-22089403 Accessed 2023-03-05
2. How Your Partner’s Past Might Impact Your Future.https://www.talkspace.com/blog/partners-past-impact-your-future/ Accessed 2023-03-05
3. 11 Signs of Cheating.https://www.verywellmind.com/warning-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-2300652 Accessed 2023-03-05
4. My Partner Cheat? Never! 29 Red Flags That May Suggest a Cheater.https://www.healthyplace.com/relationships/celebrate-love/my-partner-cheat-never-29-red-flags-that-may-suggest-a-cheater Accessed 2023-03-05
5. Should You Tell Your Partner Everything About Your Past or Not?.https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/should-you-tell-your-partner-everything-about-your-past/ Accessed 2023-03-05